Ah, OK, thanks, understood!  On that point, though, I think that's more a factor of the personalities involved, than of the forum or medium.  There have been plenty of flame wars on established forums, and there'll be more.  That's why this forum is so great, and Agape Models, too.  I think it's a gentlemen's agreement we all follow here, not to devolve into the kind of name-calling and acrimony that flares up at Hyperscale, say, or Armorama.