I've built 3 1/48 LMs and only on one, did I make a new S-band dish. It wasn't worth the effort. It's such a small detail ... but the other 2, I sanded down the dish ... and IIRC just using my finger wrapped with sandpaper. It knocked down the thickness nicely. But nobody noticed anyways ...
That's my fear too. It may be too small for such attention.
And for the 'spots' on the dish, I used a mini-drill and made shallow holes. I found I had more control rather than trying to get the dots all alike with a paintbrush, or toothpick and my big, clumsy, shaky hands!
I like the drill idea. I was going to try using a pin dipped in silver paint. I did this with the rivets on the ascent section.
And those grooves you've got on the 'box' part of the S-band, they're raised, not grooves. That's not a critique, but just FYI.
Yes I made them grooves because that was easier. If I redo it I will make them raised.
I look forward to your updates Jim ... you're doing a terrific job on this!
Cheers!